TIMESINDONESIA, JAKARTA â There is a proverb say âa leak that keeps dripping on a rainy day and the nagging of a wife are the sameâ. Well, that proverb is awfully honest. Lots of men will think that their wife is just look like a broken speaker when they nagging. Yet this has become a common thing for all woman in this world.
However, guys should be grateful if their wife nagging at them, since itâs one of their way to show that they care, and wants you to be better. If you wife starts to nag, just remember one thing, they need a partner to talk, they are lonely and need more of your time to accompany them.
According to Laura Doyle a writer who focused her book about women and their thing, there are several ways a guy can do for her nagging wife. Check this out.
1. Desire, cherished and adore her every day
Human nature is contrary, when your wife nagging and you talk back to her, all you can get will be not more than just a bark. Sit beside her, hug her, talk to her, lower your voice. Cherished her, tell her that she is the prettiest woman in the world and you love when you sit next to her, and then you can go onto the next discussion about what makes your wife furious.
2. Donât make any suggestion just listen and add a little curiosity
To have a fan and a good listener is all your wife need at the moment. Never make any provocative statement, just listen and pretend to be curious even if youâre not. But you better be really curious about what your wife is dealing or it will just be a boomerang too you.
Let her say whatever she has in her mind and tell her, âyou know youâre the best in making decision, and I trust you about it, â. That words will lift up your wife the moon and change her perspective that she can talk to you in a comfy way instead of nagging. (*)